tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-504905585662067586.post9151758786604193534..comments2024-03-08T03:17:23.033-05:00Comments on eyes peeled, always: MotivatorsKarin Diamondhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03549415860426655164noreply@blogger.comBlogger26125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-504905585662067586.post-25995311467563824392012-03-21T07:43:04.768-04:002012-03-21T07:43:04.768-04:00I agree with all of the above. But the one thing ...I agree with all of the above. But the one thing helps me most is self hypnosis usually combined with meditation. I attended hypnotherapy about 5 years ago and learned how to do self hypnosis. I can go to deeper, calmer places than I ever could with meditaton alone. Not only does it relax me but afterward I feel that I am mentally clearer.<br /><br />God be with you.<br />Chris MAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-504905585662067586.post-20181380085553388582012-03-19T18:18:36.465-04:002012-03-19T18:18:36.465-04:00Hi Karin!
I stumbled upon your blog when searchi...Hi Karin! <br /><br />I stumbled upon your blog when searching for pics for a completely different site (with completely unrelated search terms, minnesota+tree sap! Erh...)- my personal pep-up project: a blog designed to lure my friends and family to visit Minnesota, the state I've been transplanted to. I used to have a communications-related job and am interested in tourism so I thought, what the heck? I might as well start working on a future career while I'm busy trying to stay alive!<br /><br />In a few weeks, I'll be going to make another stab at auto-transplant for non-Hodgkins (ALCL), and the whole thing is starting to get at me. Today, I don't like to be asked how I'm doing, because, you know, I'm having to face my own mortality a little more than I care for. But today I watched BRIDESMAIDS and it was hilarious and real and I was so elated afterwards. I looked at myself like Megan looking at Annie having a little pity party and telling her to just power through. Self-pity is OK for 20 min a day, you know, like in Tuesdays with Morrie. Then you gotta get off it. Seriously.<br /><br />I hope the radiation is treating you well. I haven't read much of your blog yet; have you discussed Brentuximab vedotin woth your doctor, as they say in the commercials? It's the new wonderdrug for Hodgkins and ALCL.<br /><br />All the best,<br />MetteMettehttp://minnesotavisits.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-504905585662067586.post-78553773647106327802012-03-10T22:11:33.564-05:002012-03-10T22:11:33.564-05:00Praying to the Holy Spirit is most powerful;"...Praying to the Holy Spirit is most powerful;"we groan inwardly until our souls are redeemed". Trusting in God gives you inner peace which quiets our souls. Then, and only then, can the Holy Spirit enable our humanly body to overcome insurmountable obstacles.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-504905585662067586.post-25390908951958589732012-03-05T11:23:44.559-05:002012-03-05T11:23:44.559-05:00Karin, I find motivation in a gift you gave me for...Karin, I find motivation in a gift you gave me for my graduation, a magnet that is now tacked above my desk with the following quote:<br /><br />"Happiness is a journey, not a destination...for a long time it seemed to me that life was about to begin- real life. But there was always some obstacle in the way, something to be gotten through first, some unfinished business, time still to be served, a debt to be paid. At last it dawned on my that these obstacles were my life. This perspective has helped me to see there is no way to happiness. Happiness is the way. So treasure every moment you have and remember that time waits for no one." ~ Souza.<br /><br />This quote is particularly special to me since you gave it to me, but you have no idea how many of my clients have also noticed it and copied it for themselves, also finding inspiration and motivation in it. So thank you for sharing this message with me and indirectly with many, many others. Now I give it back to you ;) <br />Lots of love, <br />LauraAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-504905585662067586.post-11840876935533507462012-03-04T17:19:43.952-05:002012-03-04T17:19:43.952-05:00I just finished reading Gabby, A Story of Courage ...I just finished reading Gabby, A Story of Courage and Hope, about Gabrielle Giffords. It was truly an inspiring story!<br /><br />Other than that, I love to sing bad 80s music really loud!sarahnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-504905585662067586.post-62727109817321282232012-03-02T11:46:57.902-05:002012-03-02T11:46:57.902-05:00Thank you for all of your thoughtful comments and ...Thank you for all of your thoughtful comments and suggestions, everyone!Karin Diamondhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03549415860426655164noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-504905585662067586.post-60778305551391351832012-03-02T04:33:28.534-05:002012-03-02T04:33:28.534-05:00Nature and Family always picks me up. Going away f...Nature and Family always picks me up. Going away for a trip in the mountains soon!Bohttp://homehealthaidetrainingsite.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-504905585662067586.post-63518425807417662962012-03-01T11:26:23.373-05:002012-03-01T11:26:23.373-05:00When I'm tapped out of strength I try to treat...When I'm tapped out of strength I try to treat myself really extra special well. Extra sleep, extra good food, extra reading time, cuddling time with the dog, extra stretching and walking time, time to read. Giving myself the gift of time to get off the freakin treadmill of daily life and take care of #1!! <br /><br />Once the above is accomplished and I am feeling refreshed, my motivators are simple - nature, animals, friends and family. I look around my world to appreciate the organic wonder of the world. Sometimes its as simple as looking out the window and watching a brilliant red cardinal perch on the branch of a snow covered tree - wow! I think that I'd like to see the sun, the waves, the trees, my beautiful partner and my dog for many days to come....thats what keeps me going. I think how lucky I am to have this moment. <br /><br />As for sayings, its almost cliche now, but I do think its so true and poignant for those affected by disease or illness that we can't change yesterday, can't predict tomorrow, we only have today.<br /><br />Luck and Love to you!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-504905585662067586.post-53620454677785049742012-02-29T17:31:00.545-05:002012-02-29T17:31:00.545-05:00I can see the "high fives" coming in to ...I can see the "high fives" coming in to you from all over the world and I think...... if I listen really closely.... YES.... there it is.....I can hear the applause for you too!!!!!!!!! <br /><br />Lots of love and best wishes to raise your spirits- beautiful girl!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-504905585662067586.post-80334146044588991342012-02-29T12:48:20.105-05:002012-02-29T12:48:20.105-05:00Dear Karin,
I agree with all of the above sugges...Dear Karin, <br /><br />I agree with all of the above suggestions (especially movies about overcoming the odds/adversity!!!!). However, one thing that really helped me was to try (and i mean try, i was not always successful!) to learn to let go of the outcome through zen/buddhism/meditation and learn how to be at peace with external factors beyond my control, and enjoy my life in each moment. That way I didn't have to go up and down with each visit, but could just take each event as it happened. This is a super ambitious, but I found it more comforting the more things went wrong with my treatment, because I stopped relying on my body to react to chemo and instead worked on my mind's reactions (much more in my power!). Some books that helped - Zen Living for Dummies (I swear!) and Transformation and Healing (Thich Nhat Hanh). Actually any of Thich Nhat Hanh books would be helpful. I am only suggesting this because I know you do yoga, and the focus on breathing and moving in the moment is very similar. <br /><br />All my good vibes to you!!<br />TiffTiffanyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15304509949940154602noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-504905585662067586.post-3799828493464791762012-02-28T22:49:41.952-05:002012-02-28T22:49:41.952-05:00I wanted to share a few quotes:
Fear can hold you...I wanted to share a few quotes:<br /><br />Fear can hold you prisioner, Hope can set you free. <br /> From The Shaw Shank Redemption<br /><br />Hope is a good thing, maybe the best of things, and no good thing ever dies.<br /> From the Shaw Shank Redemption<br /><br />100% of all the shots you don't take don't go in.<br /> Wayne Gretzky<br />Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed no hope at all. <br /> Dale CarnegieAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-504905585662067586.post-20661070618036062262012-02-28T22:49:31.991-05:002012-02-28T22:49:31.991-05:00How about giving yourself a great freaking big &qu...How about giving yourself a great freaking big "high five" for all you have endured and all you have accomplished and a deep breath for what is ahead. A great big round of applause to you dear Karin!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-504905585662067586.post-26150716670237804152012-02-28T22:14:49.971-05:002012-02-28T22:14:49.971-05:00Through my 9 years of dealing with being sick on a...Through my 9 years of dealing with being sick on and off I found several ways to get out of my funk. <br />One was my ipod. Music is great therapy for me!! Songs such as Journey's Dont Stop Believin, Better Days by the Goo Goo Dolls, Don't Give UP by Peter Gabriel, I can See Clearly Now by Johnny Nah, I have a cd that is the soundtrack from the movie The Persuit of Happiness and all the songs just put me in a good mood and get me out of my funk!! <br />Also walking on the beach... You can clear your head and relax. <br />Take one day at a time enjoy each day!!!Donnanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-504905585662067586.post-53963843033493270012012-02-28T17:48:38.737-05:002012-02-28T17:48:38.737-05:00There is a poem by Richard Lovelace that I love so...There is a poem by Richard Lovelace that I love so much, I keep a copy in my wallet so that it's always handy. It kind of puts things in perspective for me.<br /><br />Stone walls do not a prison make,<br />Nor iron bars a cage;<br />Minds innocent and quiet take<br />That for an hermitage;<br /><br />Susie<br /><br />If I have freedom in my love,<br />And in my soul am free,<br />Angels alone that soar above<br />Enjoy such liberty.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-504905585662067586.post-15997260617179801312012-02-28T12:07:36.730-05:002012-02-28T12:07:36.730-05:00The Beach! Walking with my toes in the sand, sun ...The Beach! Walking with my toes in the sand, sun on my face, and wind thru my hair....clears my mind and helps give me positive energy. Just listening to the waves coming ashore and searching for shells, beach glass, or that perfectly white stone. The best place for letting go of stress and recharging for strength! Soon you'll be in California - the beach is waiting for you :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-504905585662067586.post-6250812527995118542012-02-28T11:35:14.768-05:002012-02-28T11:35:14.768-05:00Music of course, and I like today's songs that...Music of course, and I like today's songs that are full of pep like Pink's Raise your Glass, or Katy Perry's songs and of course Lady Gaga. But also, do things that you really enjoy--is it a massage, spa day, a mani pedi or just reading a good book for the 10th time? (I re-read Pride and Prejudice just because it is my favorite book). <br /><br />You don't say why the funk is happening now--I mean, besides the obvious d'uh reason. Is there anything you need or want? I am sure people would be happy to oblige you!<br /><br />the other Karin DiamondAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-504905585662067586.post-39187516022316596112012-02-28T10:34:39.628-05:002012-02-28T10:34:39.628-05:00If ever I am in a funk (and it seems to be quite o...If ever I am in a funk (and it seems to be quite often these days) I find my motivation from the ever eloquent LL Cool J's "Mamma Said Knock You Out". I'd like to say it's from finding peace and love but for me I need to kick myself in the pants - and the words "I'm gonna take this itty bitty world by storm and I'm just gettin warm" pull me up every time.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-504905585662067586.post-31524635136765080592012-02-28T00:56:04.219-05:002012-02-28T00:56:04.219-05:00I think really hard about the people I love, that ...I think really hard about the people I love, that I want to be there for them and that they want to be there for me... Then I visualize how wonderful that could beAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-504905585662067586.post-62013673352011097572012-02-27T21:51:10.921-05:002012-02-27T21:51:10.921-05:00Besides praying, I just remind myself that "w...Besides praying, I just remind myself that "we will because we have to." Sometimes knowing that there's just no other acceptable choice is motivation enough.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-504905585662067586.post-67650481328120856832012-02-27T19:47:34.475-05:002012-02-27T19:47:34.475-05:00A few months ago I wrote a quick blog post about t...A few months ago I wrote a quick blog post about this. Check it out <br />http://cookingwithmodesty.blogspot.com/2011/12/power-through.html<br /><br />Hope things are going well! Sending warm wishes from Ontario, Canada <br /><br />Jill<br />(extended family of the Chapmans)JILLhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02529949749043426045noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-504905585662067586.post-69675526776118836692012-02-27T17:23:25.808-05:002012-02-27T17:23:25.808-05:00“You must do the thing you think you cannot do” E...“You must do the thing you think you cannot do” Eleanor Roosevelt<br /><br />“Dum spiro, spero (Latin), "While I breath, I hope"” CiceroAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-504905585662067586.post-66555729059848698192012-02-27T16:03:25.396-05:002012-02-27T16:03:25.396-05:00I agree with Stephen above and plan to check out t...I agree with Stephen above and plan to check out the music he suggests. Music that really moves me gets me out of my funk. I opted to not have a lot of visitors during my hospital stay, but I was so glad I let the music therapist in. It took me a long, long time to engraft and one day she came in and played the guitar & sang that old Jimmy Cliff reggae song, "I can see clearly now", um...the lyrics go "I can see clearly now the rain is gone...gonna be a bright bright sunshiny day." Whooosh....I FELT that song. I mentioned this to a woman I know whose mother was at a low point & they had a violinist come in to her mom's hospital room. Whatever moves you. <br /><br />I also compiled a list of motivational sayings and lyrics from many cultures. I think of them as the "wisdom of the ages".<br /><br />I sat with my parents one night and asked them to review with me every incident they could recall of my extended family members bravery in times of crisis. I learned a lot. I used that info to tell myself, "I am made of tough stuff- we are a tough and resilient clan".Rosienoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-504905585662067586.post-68452444807226586432012-02-27T15:59:40.312-05:002012-02-27T15:59:40.312-05:00The song I will survive from Gloria Gaynor. Pick ...The song I will survive from Gloria Gaynor. Pick a theme song that feels right for you and play it alot!atorgesenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17274780875902970560noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-504905585662067586.post-54487519773722438272012-02-27T15:53:43.452-05:002012-02-27T15:53:43.452-05:00I like these movies: Rudy and The Blind Side!I like these movies: Rudy and The Blind Side!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-504905585662067586.post-2135274107763447582012-02-27T13:45:37.800-05:002012-02-27T13:45:37.800-05:00I have a few songs I turn to - "Beautiful Wor...I have a few songs I turn to - "Beautiful World", Colin Hays; Breathe, Alexi Murdoch; Daisy's Song, Dominic Balli; Rise, Eddie Veder; It's Only Fear, Alexi Murdoch...and when I'm mad I turn to my punk rock.<br /><br />My quotes I hold dear: "This too shall pass" and "Omnia mutantur, nihil interit" (Everything changes, nothing is lost).<br /><br />My wife is my motivation, my heart and my soul. When I feel I can't do it for myself, I do it for her.Stephen Dickternoreply@blogger.com